Our little baby girl's name is now final!
First name: Patricia-Rose
My paternal grandmother's name was Patricia. She was very important to me, I was shocked and saddened by her sudden death in 2006. She loved her grandchildren more than anything! I spent a lot of time with her growing up, I think she was a good influence on me. I hope she would have liked her little namesake!
We added the -Rose because... well, we like it. :) Grandma loved roses - she always had some planted in the yard, I inherited what I think of as her most beautiful painting of - wait for it....roses! We now have this hanging in the hallway, I looove looking at it. In fact, I could see it while birthing the baby girl! And as my Dad pointed out - we are from the City of Roses.
I know Rose is the most overdone middle name ever right now, but I care not. And anyway, it isn't her middle name, it is part of her first name. I've always loved double names. :)
While Grandma went by Pat, we wanted a more modern short form for Patricia. I liked Patsy but Adrian didn't, both of us are a bit soft of Tricia (seems too 80s, right?)...and I finally happened upon the fact that Pippa is a legitimate short form for Patricia! Excellent! In fact, I even remember remarking to my Auntie Jan that Pippa was a cool name, but with Pippa Middleton's bum and all it would be too popular. This is what all the name bloggers were saying at the time. BUT - they were wrong. Pippa/Phillipa/Patricia have not really moved very much in the top 1000 names for the last few years. So we felt safe going with it - we didn't want an overly popular name. And it is hella cute. :)
Middle name: Gwaiji
Chinese names are complicated. There are five Chinese elements (wood, fire, earth, water, gold). Depending on when you're born (right down to the minute), you are lacking in an element, and your name should make up this element. Pippa was lacking in wood.
Gwaiji is really two names - Gwai Ji. Gwai is her Chinese middle name - all of our future children will share this. Ji is her Chinese first name. You could pronounce this Gee or Chi or Tze - it doesn't really translate well into English.
Gwai is the osmanthus bush - which is a lovely floral bush with fantastic scent. I really like the smell of osmanthus, so this seemed a nice choice from my perspective, although Adrian and his family had the final say on the Chinese name.
Also complicating the Chinese name is that the number of strokes (including the last name) has to be a certain number (like, 56 is good) - due to the time and date of her birth. Confusing, yes! Her Chinese birthday is March 14th - see if that doesn't make your head spin. :) In fact, because she's born at 11:18pm, that's actually the next day. Also confusing.
Anyhoo, the name Gwai Ji should confer much success on our little Pippa, and perhaps even soften our Taurus up a bit. :)